In the blink of an eye my baby turned 9-months-old. Somehow I was lingering too long on how much sleep I’m not getting or what a big adjustment 4 children has been, because I don’t know how we got here already. Slip sliding the last three months to one–year-old. Wow!
When I look back at how the time flew, I wish I could go back to myself about 6 months ago and remind that mama that the days are long but the years are short. When I had that very colicky baby, I was in total survival mode. I did nothing but keep everyone fed and try to keep clean clothes on the kids and walk and rock and shush and nurse my struggling baby.
Oh how I wish I could tell my 6 months-ago-self to just keep swimming!
In our house Dory has made a huge impact. Dory told us all to just keep swimming (in that fantastic sing-songy voice!) and it has stuck with us all these years. What do we do? We swim. We take it one day at a time.
We do the next thing.
I think all moms feel that sense of how overwhelming caring for a baby can be at one point or another. But do we all remember it’s just a season and soon baby will be out of this stage and we’ll be longing for these baby days again? Being overwhelmed means I missed many of the little moments along the way, and slowing life down a bit, taking it all one step at a time, is proving to leave me with room in my mind and heart to create beautiful memories instead of a rushed babyhood I’m just trying to get through. I’m so grateful for a little perspective!
Now that we are sinking deep into life with a happy, mobile (dare I say, easy) baby, I don’t feel in survival mode. I feel like taking the next steps and walking from surviving to thriving. Want to come swimming?
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